And now for something completely different

An update!

Oh wait, that’s not completely different…. Oh well, you’ll just have to accept it anyway. It’s taken me this long to recover from our holiday, so I hope you can forgive me for not writing. I haven’t really been ‘recovering’ as such, I just haven’t felt like writing anything, but that changes today.

The holiday was great.

The actual reality of the holiday didn’t change much from what I expected, and since I’ve already detailed those expectations, I’ll just summarise a few things I didn’t detail.

My family xmas went better than I expected it would, with no arguing or bickering. It was as if everyone knew the enormity of it all, with the whole family gathered together for the first time in 16 years, and everyone wanted to remember it well. It was great having Deidre as part of it, as part of the family.

Mom surprised us all (except my dad, of course) with a gift of $500 each, which was tightly rolled up and placed within the bon-bons. When we pulled them to break them open with a loud crack, out fell a small gift wrapped up in a paper xmas hat. Just what we were expecting. However, what we weren’t expecting was that the small gifts were a rolled up wad of ten $50 notes.

It was very well done, and I credit my mom for going to the effort of making them look just like bon-bons bought in a shop. My first thought was that they were monopoly money, but when I unrolled the wad, they certainly seemed real. My second thought was that some strange person in the bon-bon factory was overcome with generosity, and I was the fortunate recipient. But then while Deidre was holding one of the $50 notes up against the light to see if it was real, I noticed that both my younger brothers had the same thing, while Deidre had a small bottle of perfume, and dad just had the paper xmas hat. That’s when I realised what mum had done.

So that was a xmas to remember. On my part, I gave her a small album of photos of her budgie which she’d accidentally stepped on (read the 3rd paragraph here). She’s still a blubbering mess about it, but that’s her choice.

Port Augusta was significant for me, but in a way that was completely different to how I expected. After being there for a day, I realised I didn’t need to be there!

It had changed too much for it to have any meaning for me. What it used to be, is no more. What was important to me exists only in my mind now, in my memories, and that’s where they will remain.

I was saddened by one of the changes. Aboriginal drunkenness had apparently resulted in widespread vandalism across the city, especially the public schools. My old high school entry points were blocked by tall, barred fences, preventing access.

My high school years were extremely significant for me, and while I got a few photos through the bars, it was not enough. The areas I wanted to take photos of were unavailable to me. Since the high school was supposed to be a major point for me, I was sorely disappointed by how the changes had impacted upon my ability to ’stroll down memory lane’. There were gates on that lane which I couldn’t get through.

While I was in Port Augusta, I didn’t see a single person that I might have known. In fact, for the entire first day I was there, I saw only 5 white people, and 3 of them were counter chicks at the supermarket we visited near our motel. Two others were customers. Every other soul we saw in the streets and on the beaches were Aboriginals.

I’d heard that ‘the Aboriginals had taken over the town’, but I didn’t believe it was true. Amazing.

We went west and north, into ‘outback South Australia’ and the Flinders Ranges. This is the real outback, where the sand is red, and the conditions are close to being desert-like. Very hot (43 degrees Celsius at the time we were there, or 109 degrees Fahrenheit), very dry, and absolutely no animal life to be seen. It was far too arid for anything more than snakes or lizards.

We visited some old ruins of a community that once tried to exist there in the 1800’s. They failed. A lot of people died. All that remains are ruins.

I’m glad I got a lot of photos, and I’ll be posting sideshows of them soon. If you’re a friend of mine on Facebook, you’ll have already had the opportunity to see them. My Facebook friends will always get to see them before I post them to this blog.

Returning to Canberra was a welcome end to the travelling, but it wasn’t an end to the ‘holiday’. Our friends from NZ, Garry and Monique had joined us from Adelaide, travelling with us to Pt Augusta and back to Canberra. We arrived safely back in Canberra on the 30th, and they were with us until the 3rd, so we had a good time showing them around the place. I think they enjoyed it, which was good.

New Year’s Eve was a great time.

We had a bunch of friends who joined us for the celebration, and while some stayed and went early, we were happy that they came at all. The rest that stayed for the whole night helped us have a fantastic time. It was one of the best new year’s eve celebrations of my entire life.

I drank a lot. I hadn’t done that since the same night in 1999, when I was celebrating Millennium Eve.

It was an honour for me that the friends who joined us chose to be with us on such a night, to celebrate with us. Out of all the parties and friends they could have joined, they chose to be with us, and I’m grateful to have such friends.

After Garry and Monique left on the 3rd, things have been returning to a semblance of routine. Deidre has been working, and I’ve been looking for work. It’s a little slow right now, being the holiday period, but I’m hoping to find a new contract soon.

I feel that 2008 is going to be like 2007 – full of exciting new changes that will propel us forward.

There’s a lot we want to do, and it’s going to be interesting to see which of our plans reach fruition this year.

Some of the things I want to do this year could be considered as ‘new year’s resolutions’, and include:

  • lose 10 kg and get fitter
  • take up pistol shooting
  • join a car club with my XR6 Turbo and go on country cruises with others
  • invest in at least one property
  • sell a number of ebooks

None of these are particularly difficult, I feel. One of the best ways to achieve resolutions is to make sure they’re what you actually want to do, rather than what you think is best but don’t want to do. If you don’t want to do it, you won’t. I want to do all of the above.

Facebook Friends

I also want to finish off 2008 with at least 200 Facebook friends, just for the fun of it. So if you’d like to add me as a friend, please do so (and please send me a message to let me know why you’re adding me!), and you’ll not only be helping me achieve a goal, but helping yourself stay up to date with my blog posts, and get to see my photo albums before they’re posted to the blog. I’m sure it’s something you can’t wait to do! :-)

Have a great 2008, and I hope you achieve your own goals and find more happiness than what you currently have. Cheers!

And a happy new year to you!

I’m settling in for the new year, with friends coming over for bbq, drinks and music. I’ll be taking photos.

I hope you all have a good new year, and all the best for 2008. I’m looking forward to this coming year!

Merry Christmas to you all

I hope you had a wonderful time with your family and friends, and that you felt a sense of love and belonging. To me, that’s what christmas is about, and that’s what I’ve had today.

I’ll provide more of an update tomorrow, but right now, I’m going to bed to get some sleep!

Merry xmas everyone. I hope it’s a good one for you.

Group your Facebook friends

One of the interesting challenges about Facebook as a social network of your friends is – how do you define your friends? I mean, there’s your real friends, your work friends, your party friends, and even your random Facebook friends. Up until now, there was no way to sort them into groups.

Facebook has just implemented a new Lists feature for your friends, allowing you to create Lists by which you can sort your friends into. I think this is an awesome idea, ’cause I really didn’t like how you couldn’t sort your friends into ‘close friends’ and ‘random Facebook friends that you wouldn’t know from a bar of soap’. Now you can!

Some friends might fit into more than one List, and I really don’t see a problem with that. I like how you can sort your friends into lists that mean something to you, which then allows you to send messages to all friends in a List, or invite them to be part of an event, etc.

So now you can group your Facebook friends into Lists that are meaningful to you. I don’t envy you if you have hundreds or even thousands of friends! That’s the problem with being so popular, I guess….

The latest changes

5D0725D2-8DD7-4622-9910-C0469C7B93AE.jpgIf there’s one thing that’s constant in my life, it’s change. I can always rely on everything to change, regardless of how much I want to settle down, or how much I think things have settled down. Change will always remind me that I can’t rely on anything to stay the same.

My contract finishes this week, and after 5 weeks of looking for another contract to move on to, I haven’t found anything. This has been a little disconcerting, as I had hoped to find another contract to either start with immediately, or at least in the new year. I haven’t found either.

I know that Christmas time is not a good time to look for work, and I’m glad that we’ve been preparing enough to accommodate a greatly decreased income for a period of time. I’ve worked out that I’ll be fine until the end of January, when the funds will start being drained, so I’ve still got a decent period of time.

Most people look forward to their holidays as a time of relaxation and rest. I think that’ll be the same for me, but I’m not entirely convinced. For me, relaxation and rest occurs when I’m doing my own thing, by myself, without anyone else bothering me. So let’s look at this holiday period for me….

On the 24th we’ll be getting up around 5am and driving from 6am through to about 4pm, to Berri in Sth Australia. After freshening up in our hotel room, we’ll have dinner with my parents and my brothers before collapsing into bed asleep. The next morning it’ll be Christmas Day.

We’re having breakfast at the hotel, and then joining my family for Christmas Brunch (for those who don’t know what that is, it’s a mix of Breakfast and Lunch – Brunch). This will start at around 10:30am, and will involve feasting and frivolity until about 2pm, when we’ll set off for Adelaide, arriving there about 5pm.

We’ll arrive just in time for Christmas Dinner with Deidre’s dad and his partner Janet. After more feasting and frivolity and drinking copious amounts of beer, we’ll collapse into bed asleep.

I think the next day will be the only period of rest and relaxation I’ll have for some time. It’ll be Dec 26, Boxing Day, and Deidre wants to go to the beach. It’ll give me time to chill out and relax.

On Dec 27, we’re going to the airport in the morning to pick up our friends Garry and Monique, who are flying in from New Zealand. They’re joining us as we drive north 3-4 hours to Port Augusta, where I grew up between 1978 and 1985. We should be there by mid afternoon. After doing a quick site seeing trip around the place, we’ll find our hotel, have dinner and collapse into bed asleep.

Dec 28 will involve going north for half an hour through the Flinders Ranges to Quorn, a small town of about 100 people or so, and where I lived for a year in 1977. Being only a tiny town, and half an hour away, we should be back in Pt Augusta soon after lunch, allowing us to do more site-seeing of the place.

My mate Dan, who I grew up with in Pt Augusta, will unfortunately not be able to come with me, so I’ll be taking hundreds of photos to share with him later.

My time in Pt Augusta is going to be quite emotional. I lived there when I was aged 11 through to 18, and they were some of my most formative years. The wild, emotional times of adolescence, and the music that went with it. The experiences I shared with Dan, and the experiences I keep for myself.

Revisiting it after 22 years is going to be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster ride for me.

On the 29th we’ll be driving 4-5 hours east to Berri, where we’ll stay overnight and have dinner with my parents, before continuing on back to Berri on the 30th Dec. We’ll try to leave Berri as early as we can, allowing us to arrive back in Canberra before dinner, after which we’ll collapse into bed asleep.

The 31st Dec – New Years Eve – will involve some site seeing for Garry and Monique as we take them around some of the best parts of Canberra, but we’ll have to be home before 4pm, as that’s when we’ve invited everyone we know to join us and celebrate the end of 2007, and the beginning of 2008.

We’re having an open party, where people can come and go as they please, bring food and drink if they want to, and stay as long as they want. At the very minimum, there’ll be Garry and Monique there with us, and if anyone else wants to pop in and join us at any point, that’d be great. I’ll have the BBQ going, and the food cooking, and the drinks fizzing….

And then after midnight some time, I’ll be collapsing into bed asleep.

Garry and Monique will be with us unil 3rd January 2008, so there’ll be more site-seeing as we show them the joys of Canberra. There’ll also be some relaxing along the way, as Garry and I shared a favourite pastime – sitting in Starbucks and talking about roleplaying games or Star Trek.

It’ll be good to revisit that with him after so long.

But then they’ll leave on the 3rd, flying on to Perth, and then on to asia where they’ll walk around for a few months before continuing on to Europe, where they plan on settling down. I really don’t know when I’ll see them again, or even if I’ll see them again, and the thought of that makes me sad.

With change comes sadness, as the old makes way for the new, ultimately bringing yet more excitement and happiness.

Deidre’s returning to work on the 3rd January, and so the 4th, being a Friday, will be the only day that I’ll have to myself for two weeks. I think I might enjoy that day!

Then there’s the weekend, and I hope that I’ll be starting a new job on the 7th.

I went for an interview yesterday with a recruitment agency for a Sharepoint Consultant role, and it went really well, very positive. As a result, I’ve got a second interview on Friday with the actual client. I’m hoping that will go really well too, and that I’ll start the new role on the 7th January. Wish me luck!

So that’s my life right now, and over the next 2-3 weeks. It’s going to be an exciting time! This is a heads up of what’s coming, and there’ll be more updates as they occur.

How indifferent are you?

As you see examples of police brutality, how easy is it for you to justify it? Do you tell yourself that only the criminals have something to fear? Do you convince yourself that if you stay out of trouble, that you too will avoid police brutality? Do you believe that the police are brutal only to those that deserve it?

Then you’re fooling yourself into believing that reality is all roses, because you find the truth too hard to accept.

“Do not be afraid of enemies; the worst they can do is to kill you. Do not be afraid of friends; the worst they can do is betray you. Be afraid of the indifferent; they do not kill or betray. But only because of their silent agreement, betrayal and murder exist on earth.”
- “The Plot of the Indifferent” (1937) by Bruno Yasienski

Any time you express indifference regarding the violent and oppressive actions of those you would like to think are acting in your best interests, only serves to encourage that oppression. Any time you say to yourself, ‘At least they’re not tasering/shooting/assaulting me’, you allow them to continue doing it to others.

And then one day you’ll find that you’re one of those ‘others’.

First they came…

When the Nazis came for the communists,
I remained silent;
For I was not a communist.

When they locked up the social democrats,
I remained silent;
For I was not a social democrat.

When they came for the Jews,
I remained silent:
For I was not a Jew.

Then when they came for me, there was nobody left to speak up.
– Pastor Martin Niemöller (1892–1984)

The danger is that your indifference will result in oppression being applied against you. And you let it happen by not doing anything about it.

Yes, you.

You are part of a collective called humanity. At the very least you are a member of your family, of the community, of the people of your city, of your country. When you personally take no interest in the oppression of those around you, you are not only allowing it to become widespread, you are also silently supporting it.

By not discouraging something, you are encouraging it.

If someone hits another man in public and no one stops it, then he feels encouraged to do it again. When a woman is raped in an alley and no one responds to her screams, the rapist feels encouraged to do it again.

When society is brutalised by their police and no one does anything about it, they are telling the police that they don’t care. ‘Abuse us all you want, we won’t stand against you.’ And so the police are encouraged to continue.

Think about this as you sleep at night, as you allow your indifference to feed the oppressive nature of your police and government that is slowly but surely acting against you.

Your freedoms are being removed, your rights are being destroyed, and your lives are being controlled. If you don’t like it, you’ll be arrested. All because you allow this to happen.

What are you going to do about it?

“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.”
- Edmund Burke

101 ways to save money

In my article about how to be your own financial manager, I talked about how you can cut extra expenses in order to save money. It’s amazing the money you can save by cutting out the smallest things.

Thanks to Free Money Finance, I found an article listing 101 ways to trim your expenses. I thought I’d take the opportunity to point you to them, and to list my favourites. These are things I already have been doing in my own life.

4. Try a vacation at home. See and do the things you’ve always meant to do and save on hotel costs. The holidays are a perfect time to enjoy local festivities.

5. Send free e-cards and save on postage.

21. Plan parties where everyone brings something.

30. Plan your purchases–avoid impulse buying.

32. Track your spending. If you write it all down, you’ll probably spend less. And you’ll know exactly where your money goes.

36. Use a budget–especially for items like gifts.

37. Compare rates for cable and satellite. Go with the less expensive option. Only sign up for the channels you know you’ll watch.

83. Turn down your home thermostat a couple of degrees in the winter.
84. Only do full loads of laundry and fill the dishwasher before running it.

91. Get rid of “add on” services with phone, TV, etc.
92. Keep up maintenance on cars. It may prevent costly future problems.

101. Cut back trips to Starbucks or other premium coffee shops.

The Paradoxical Commandments

I found these here, and thought it would be nice to share with you.

1. People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway.

2. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway.

3. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.

4. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

5. Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.

6. The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.

7. People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

8. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.

9. People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway.

10. Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.

- Kent M. Keith

Are you a perfectionist?

http://www.nytimes.com/

Some researchers divide perfectionists into three types, based on answers to standardized questionnaires: Self-oriented strivers who struggle to live up to their high standards and appear to be at risk of self-critical depression; outwardly focused zealots who expect perfection from others, often ruining relationships; and those desperate to live up to an ideal they’re convinced others expect of them, a risk factor for suicidal thinking and eating disorders.

“It’s natural for people to want to be perfect in a few things, say in their job – being a good editor or surgeon depends on not making mistakes,” said Gordon L. Flett, a psychology professor at York University and an author of many of the studies. “It’s when it generalizes to other areas of life, home life, appearance, hobbies, that you begin to see real problems.”

If you’re a perfectionist and you think that it might be nice to NOT be one, then there’s even some advice to help you ‘get over it’.

Leave work on time. Don’t arrive early. Take all the breaks allowed. Leave the desk a mess. Allow yourself a set number of tries to finish a job; then turn in what you have.

“And then ask: Did you get punished? Did the university continue to function? Are you happier?” Ms. Provost said. “They were surprised that yes, everything continued to function, and the things they were so worried about weren’t that crucial.”

The world continues to turn. Heads do NOT explode. People still like you. Or dislike you, if that’s the case. Being a perfectionist simply prevents you from being happy, and since that’s your ultimate goal, let go of those perfectionist tendencies.

How to be your own financial manager

If you’re like most people, you’re in debt. You’re spending more money than you’re earning, and you’re hoping that you’ll keep yourself afloat for long enough to find a solution to your problem. But the solution never comes, and your situation is getting worse and worse. What to do?

The real problem is not that you’re in debt, but that you don’t know how to manage your financial situation. You think that being a financial manager is for experts to follow as a career choice. However, you have an income and you need to manage how that income is used. In effect, you need to become your own financial manager.

Most people don’t know how to be their own financial manager, so I’m going to provide a few hints to help out. These hints are based on what I’ve learned, and what’s worked for me. I hope that you can make them work for you too.

1) Always spend less than you earn

This is often considered easier said than done, but seriously – spending more than you earn is what got you into your debt-stricken situation, and is what’s keeping you there.

Go through the expenses of your last month. (If you don’t know what your expenses were because of sloppy record-keeping, then start recording your expenses over the next month.) analyze what you find, and work out what you don’t need to spend any more.

For example, if you’re spending $5 a day on Starbucks coffee, you could probably stop it. (Drink water instead, or bring your own coffee to work.) That’s $25 a week, assuming you only do it on work days. $100 a month. $1,200 a year. How long have you been doing it? Five years maybe? You’ve just spent $6,000 on coffee. What do you have to show for it? What else could that money have been spent on that actually gives you something substantial, something that might improve your life?

Look at everything in your life and work out what you don’t need to spend any more. And simply stop spending it.

Remember – doing this is extremely important if you are currently spending more than what you earn. You need to cut back! The time for excuses is over.

2) Pay yourself first

Once you’ve worked out what you can stop spending your money on, you’ll find that you have more money to play with. However, instead of playing with it foolishly, you need to actually manage it responsibly.

Your first priority with your money is to look after yourself. Pay yourself first and build up a savings account. You need this for a happy and rewarding lifestyle. It brings good things to you.

A good rule of thumb is to take 10% of your after-tax income and put it aside for savings. If your expenses prevent you from putting aside 10% of what you earn, then you need to re-read #1 above.

Get serious about this! Get rid of those frivolous expenses that you don’t need.

If you can’t find 10% after cutting out everything that you don’t need to spend, then drop it to 5%. As long as you’re putting some money aside, you’re doing yourself a favour.

Set up an automatic transfer with your bank, so that every time you get paid, the savings amount automatically gets transferred to another account. Getting this out of the way before you touch your income is better than saying to yourself, “I’ll get around to transferring it later.” If you leave it up to yourself, you’ll always find something else to do with it instead. And you know that hasn’t helped you in the past, has it?

3) Use the snowball method to pay off your debts

The snowball method works like this…

  • Itemise every single one of your debts and how much you pay each month for that debt. Do not include utility expenses or other general bills. This particular exercise is only for those debts you have which can be paid off and eliminated from your life.

  • Order your itemised list by the smallest debt down to the largest.
  • Now double the amount you’re paying on the smallest debt. If it’s $20 a month, then pay $40. Keep up this modified payment until that debt is paid off.
  • Once it’s paid off, you’ve now got $40 available to add to the next debt. When that debt has been paid off, you take the total amount that you now have available each month and add it to the next debt.
  • Keep doing this until all your debts are paid off. The more you pay off this way, the more money you’ll have to pay off the rest of the debts. You’ll discover that you’ll be debt-free in no time! Well, at least it’ll be much faster than if you were to just continue paying the minimum payments or defaulting on those payments…

Note: if you don’t have any extra money each month to add to the smallest debt, then take it out of your savings each month. When that debt has been paid off, stop taking what you needed out of your savings. If your debt was $20, then now that you’re no longer paying it off, you have that $20 to put towards the next debt, and the amount you’re putting into your savings is back to normal again.

4) Until you’re in a better situation, get rid of your credit card. Now.

Credit can be a trap. In return for a quick fix of money now, you end up paying for it in interest payments. The more credit you have, the more interest you’re paying. Get rid of all your credit debts before you even consider going down that path again.

Credit can be useful, if used wisely and responsibly. But if you’re in credit debt that’s costing you a fortune, you need to do something about it, and you need to do it now.

Cut up the credit cards. I mean it. You don’t want to have that temptation lying around in your drawer, or your wallet or purse! When you’ve paid off a credit debt according to the snowball method, cancel the account. Close it. Get it out of your life.

You can consider credit in the future, when you’re able to manage your financial situation more efficiently, but right now, you don’t need it. It’s what’s gotten you into this mess!

5) Create a net worth spreadsheet

This is an excellent method of understanding and managing your financial situation, which is important in helping you achieve your goals.

  • Open up an Excel spreadsheet.

  • Itemise your asset names, and how much they’re worth. For example, I have the following itemisation: home contents, car 1, car 2, savings. I have the value of home contents as being what it’s insured for. I depreciate the value of the cars by 10% per annum, or 0.83% per month. Savings is adjusted every month.
  • Itemise your liability names, and how much they’re worth. For example, I have the following itemisation: lease finance, personal loan, hire purchase account. The loans appreciate each month by the value of the interest rates, but then reduce by the value of the payments I’m making.
  • At the end of it all, you’ll have a value for your assets, and for your liabilities. Subtract the liability value from the asset value to see your net worth. Update this each month.

Ideally, you want the net worth value to always be in the positive. If your net worth is in the negative, it means you have more liabilities than assets. This needs to change, and by following the suggestions in this article, it will change.

A positive net worth puts you into a more secure position than a negative net worth. This is because it means you have assets that can be sold if you need to pay off debt quickly.

6) Educate yourself on the important things in your life

Managing money is a skill, and it’s one of the most important skills you can have in your life. You can’t do much without money, and if you don’t know what you’re doing with it then you’ll just be making mistake after mistake. With effective financial management comes increased opportunities for finding greater success in your life.

If you manage your money effectively, then you’re managing your life effectively.

With all skills, you usually have to learn how to do what’s required, and then practice doing it. So you need to start learning how to do what’s required to successfully manage your money, and then you need to practice it.

There are financial management courses available, but there’s also the internet. There are countless websites out there that will help you manage your money effectively.

You owe it to yourself to learn one of the most valuable skills in your life, so start educating yourself.

7) Spend your money on things that bring value

Instead of spending $100 a month on coffee, for example, you could be saving it towards a deposit on an investment property. Of course, while you’re in your stressful debt situation, thinking about spending money on something you can’t afford is simply not a priority right now.

However, once you get to that point by following the advice in this article, you’ll find that using your money to make more money is an effective and beneficial means of financial management.

An investment property costs money to maintain, of course, but tax benefits from negative gearing can make that cheaper for you. The property is likely to appreciate over time, allowing you to sell it a few years down the track and make a profit over what you’ve spent to get it to this point. This is using your money to make money. There are other options as well, like the stock market, or investing in businesses, etc.

All of them require education, of course, so refer back to #6 above. Managing your money is one skill, but managing your money to MAKE money is another skill, and depending on what you choose to invest in, will determine what you need to educate yourself in.

On a smaller scale, any time you spend more than a few hundred dollars on something, make sure it’s adding value to your life. Buying new furniture, for example, will increase your home contents, which increases your assets. Buying property. Even buying cars.

People think of cars as a liability, because of how they depreciate. But if you do it right, you can turn your car into an asset. For example, I recently bought a new car worth AU$52,000. However, my circumstances and the way I bought it meant that it only cost me $42,000. I got a ‘fully maintained lease’ which meant the leasing costs cover every cost associated with the car (the lease plus insurance, registration, servicing, maintenance, fuel costs, tyres, etc). I was able to have this cost deducted each month from my pre-tax income, thus significantly reducing my taxable income. This meant an effective yearly saving on lease costs equivalent to my tax rate (eg. 40%). Even as the car depreciates over the next few years, the cost of having it will always be significantly less than the value of the car (unless fuel costs climb into the stratosphere!), thus ensuring the car remains an asset that can be sold to cover costs if necessary, and even give me a profit.

When you can buy something at a price significantly less than its value, then you are spending your money on things that actually become assets rather than liabilities. This is important when adding the value and costs to your net worth spreadsheet. By having a value higher than the cost, your net worth will remain positive, and you will become even more financially secure.

Important rule when doing this is to never spend more than you can afford.

When spending cash, you want to spend less than the value of what you’re buying, so that when it’s put onto your net worth spreadsheet, your net worth is always in the positive, and always growing. Eg. if you spend $500 to buy something worth $600, then your net worth has increased by $100.

Summary

As you follow the above suggestions, you will begin to appreciate the strength of being your own financial manager. Instead of naively spending what money you have on what you think is important at the time, you will actually be managing your money efficiently and responsibly.

If you fail to plan, then you’re planning to fail.

You might be earning a million dollars a year, but if your expenses are in excess of a million dollars a year, you certainly aren’t managing your money efficiently and responsibly. You’re going backwards.

It’s time to bite the bullet and get yourself out of the cycle of ignorance and debt, and into the cycle of knowledge and success. Understanding and managing your financial situation will put you ahead of the pack. Where others are still struggling with their debts, you’ll be managing yourself into a stress-free and financially secure lifestyle.

People think that financial security comes from being debt-free, but while this is one example of it, the truth is that if you always spend less than your income, and your assets exceed your liabilities, and you manage your situation responsibly, then you can be in debt and still be financially secure.

Think about property ownership. You can’t pay cash for property (unless your savings are huge!). You usually have to – and it’s wise to – get finance for it. As long as the value always exceeds the cost of owning it, you will be financially secure. That can be done with negotiating a lower price or putting a significant cash deposit down.

That is the secret. Use that knowledge with everything in your life.

Build your savings, get rid of your debts, and start again with a fresh slate, managing your money wisely and bringing value to your life.

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